You clearly love each other, yet "I don't think you love me" keeps coming up. Love hasn't cooled, you may just give and receive it in different languages, so each can't see the other's love.
Everyone expresses 'love' differently
Some express love in words ("I love you"), some in acts of care, some in time spent together, some in gifts or touch. When your language differs from your partner's, you can be giving love and still have them feel they never received it.
Are you only giving in 'your' language?
We tend to give love the way we want to receive it, gifts to someone who wants words, words to someone who wants time. If your hard effort isn't landing, check whether you're giving in your language rather than theirs.
How to learn their language
Watch when they're happiest and what they miss most, and their language appears. If they're indifferent to gifts but light up during time together, their language is quality time. Meet them there and the same effort lands far better.
Tell them your language too
Your partner can't read your language by telepathy. "I feel most loved when I hear it in words" isn't a demand but a guide. Know each other's languages and love arrives without leaking.
If "you don't love me" keeps causing clashes, sort out what makes each of you feel loved. Realizing love isn't lacking, the languages just missed, clears the misunderstanding.
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